As a 10 year resident of Cambridge, I have been following the Boston 
marathon bombings, but it wasn't until I saw this tweet from a NYT 
reporter that I thought about the connection to young adults.
 As the story unfolds, we will understand more about the motivations of 
the bombers:  nationalism, religion, or neither.  Right now we just have 
questions, such as which factors cause an adolescent to turn into the 
type of young adult who travels thousands of miles to Boston to become a
 
statistics graduate student as opposed to a 
boxer or 
alleged bomber?    
We asked a similar question during my first year in college, when one 
alienated foreign student killed her socially-integrated roommate in a 
murder-suicide. 
 I remember that spring morning in 1995, wheeling a hand truck filled 
with boxes from my dorm to Dunster House and finding Dunster surrounded 
by police tape.  The rumors in the street were that a dozen people had 
been stabbed and the killer was on the loose; ultimately it turned out 
to be just 2, and the killer had hung herself an hour ago.  Meanwhile, I needed to 
figure out what to do with my boxes.  I threw them over the wrought iron
 fence into the side yard and hoped for the best.  
Melanie Thernstrom
 researched the crime and published a book that included intriguing 
foreshadowing, such as the killer sending letters to strangers from the 
Boston phonebook asking for help with social skills, but no real 
answers.  
In this case, the alleged bombers seemed to be 
well-liked.  A photoessay of the older alleged bomber from 2 years ago is no longer available online, but 
this article has many 
photos from it and the key photo captions, such as saying that he has no American friends.
Whatever the reasons for these divergent paths, these patterns emerge during adolescence and young
 adulthood, although likely they are forged in 
childhood, infancy, and even 
before.   
Adolescents and young adults are at a turning point in life, and the uncertainty inherent in that transition is often stressful.  Here one 19 year old has 
put the entire city of Boston on lockdown.  He has made a huge negative impact on the
 world.  In the coming days, we will wonder what could have prevented 
him from taking such a destructive path.
We'll probably never know, but thankfully these extreme situations are 
rare.  More common are adolescents and young adults who destroy their 
and others' lives in more quiet ways.  UNICEF just released a report ranking the US at the 
bottom of rich countries in child well-being, below even 
Greece. 
 The entire nation is transfixed by a single demented individual, while 
entire sectors of US society are impoverished in ways that will increase 
their propensity for more mundane forms of violence, and we will feel the impact for decades.